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Sermons: 2009-2010

 

The Rev. Christopher Brdlik,   August 1, 2010

A priest I know came to the end of his ministry in a congregation he had served for years, maybe for too long, and he wanted to explain to the congregation his reasons for retirement. On his last Sunday he described the events that had led to his decision. He said that he had been at prayer one morning, and Jesus came and said to him: “My son, it is time for you to retire.” He responded, “But Lord, I have these four things I still must do before I retire.” And Jesus said, “No, I will take care of them. It is time for you to retire.” And the rector said, “But Lord, what about the people? The people are not ready yet. Let me prepare them, and then I will retire.” And Jesus said, “No, they are my people, and I will care for them. It is time for you to retire.” So the priest said, “Yes Lord. I will trust your word.” And he finished his sermon, and went to sit down in his place. Whereupon the organist stood up and announced, “In light of today’s sermon, we will change the next hymn. Let us stand and join in singing Number 289. ‘What a Friend we have in Jesus!’”     more

 

The Rev. Christopher Brdlik,   July 25, 2010

Mary Davis told me this week of an experience she had while working as a chaplain’s intern at Kessler Rehabilitation Institute. She had a patient who was comatose, unable to speak or communicate. She wondered how she could pray with this man — what to say, or what to ask for. Then she noticed on his chart that he was a Roman Catholic. “Hey,” she thought, “that means he probably knows "The Lord’s Prayer.” So, at his bedside, she prayed aloud the familiar and comforting words of the Lord’s Prayer. And the patient — still in a coma — seemed to smile in recognition, and move his lips as if he were praying with her. That’s interesting, because it squares with my own experience in similar situations.    more

 

The Rev. Christopher Brdlik,   July 18, 2010

If you have been to an event in our Parish Hall recently or if you have a child in our Sunday School, you probably have met Martha, the parish cat.  Martha is rather small, mostly black, except for a white blaze around her neck that looks like a clerical collar — pretty appropriate for a parish cat.  Her story is this: Martha was born in the barn at Laurie Matarazzo’s farm and came to live at Calvary about three years ago, through the urgings of Cimi Petrela, our sexton, and Lillian Cochran, then junior warden, and through the generosity of Dr. John Hatch, a parishioner who is a vet.   Now I am not a cat person . . .     more

 

Mary Davis, Deacon,   July 11, 2010

“Go and do likewise.” Jesus’ charge at the end of our Gospel reading today is a phrase that sticks with us. It moves us - in the way that an uplifting recessional hymn might move us – lifting us up and carrying us right from our seats in the pews, out into the world, beyond this church building. It’s the perfect end to a story that involves challenge, testing and tension, risk, reassurance, and then, resolution; a story that describes, in no uncertain terms, who our neighbor is. “Go and do likewise,” is a phrase that drives us into the world as do-ers, words that we all resonate with, words that direct and inspire our many acts of service and compassion.   more

 

The Rev. Christopher Brdlik,   June 27, 2010

Once or twice a week I like to leave the TV on after the late news and weather to watch a few minutes of the Tonight Show with Jay Leno. Sometimes Jay does a funny thing called “Jay-walking,” where he walks out on the street with a microphone and camera and asks passersby simple questions, easy ones, really. But often people cannot answer them, or at least they pretend they can’t. On one occasion about this time of year he asked about our nation’s birthday: What holiday is coming up? One woman answered, “The Fourth of July.” What does it celebrate?  “July fourth,” she said. But why, what does that mean? “Oh,” she answered, “Independence.”  Independence from whom?  A long pause. Then she said, “America?” A man about 30 was asked what famous general was in charge of the army. He answered, “Churchill.” A woman identified herself as an instructor at a college in business and general education. Jay asked her the year of independence. She said, “1922.” He corrected her to 1776.  After that she wouldn’t tell him what college she taught in. It’s a good thing he didn’t ask any of them to sing the National Anthem.     more

 

The Rev. Dr. J. Brent Bates, June 6, 2010

We preachers often like to sneak up on our congregations with the punch line…But this morning I’m going to give you the punch line up front. I think this is one of the more difficult sermons I will preach here at Calvary, but it has weighed heavy on my heart for some time now….  So, there it is: I’m going to ask you to consider raising your pledge, I really am.    more

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Mary Davis, deacon-to-be, Trinity Sunday,   May 30, 2010

Today’s liturgy offers us an opportunity to wrestle with, ponder and live-into one of the age-old questions of our faith – the dogmatic description, representation, and action of our God, using Trinitarian language. Now, over the past few years, I’ve learned that this morning is notorious for the hordes of seminarians - God bless them all – who have just finished their year-long programs, limped into and out of their final exams, and now climb into the pulpit to preach.  Why wouldn’t they? The historical truth is that people have been thrown into exile - even killed - over this Trinitarian language! What says to the Rector of a parish, “Seminarian Sunday,” more than that?    more

 

The Rev. Dr. Robert C. Morris, Day of Pentecost, May 23, 2010

The apostles were very worried about the future of the church. But 50 days later there they were, out in the streets finding new recruits for the Jesus movement. Rather than huddling in the upper room for fear of the leaders they became risk-takers, entrepreneurs, adventurers. What happened?  Holy Spirit.  The Spirit of Messiah, the risen Messiah, got ahold of their lives and their hearts and changed them.     more

 

The Rev. Dr. J. Brent Bates, May 16, 2010

This morning we observe the Feast of the Ascension. In this feast we remember the moment when Jesus, having reappeared after his death, does not die again, but ascends to heaven where he sits at the right hand of God eternally. This is of course a metaphor, a way of putting into words a truth that is ineffable. We noticed during the Easter season that the disciples had been in mourning after the crucifixion, because of the tragic loss of Jesus. And we noticed that in the time after the resurrection, the disciples had regained their hope and their lives had been transformed in ways even beyond the way they had been transformed when they first left their nets at the edge of the shore and began to follow Jesus because of his teachings and miracles. They realized that they could go on.    more

 

The Rev. Dr. Robert C. Morris, May 9, 2010

Lydia, the woman we discover “down by the riverside” has an open heart — open to welcome the good news Paul tells the Jews gathered in this place of outdoor prayer. She’s a “god-worshipper,” that is a non-Jew, a gentile drawn to Judaism, a woman who has already opened her heart and mind to the Torah and Prophets. Like many non-Jews, she finds the God of Israel a more ethical, compassionate deity, and the Jewish way of life full of calls to righteousness and justice.    more

 

The Rev. Dr. J. Brent Bates, May 2, 2010

Our gospel this morning is arguably the most important passage in the New Testament in terms of what it means to live as a Christian. “I give you a new commandment, that you love one another. Just as I have loved you, you also should love one another.” This is the closest thing we have in the Gospel John to the Summary of the Law or the Two Greatest Commandments: Love God and love your neighbor as yourself as Matthew, Mark, and Luke all agree Jesus urged. But in John it is only the second half: love one another. Now, there is a lot about love in John; in fact the Gospel of John includes more references to “love” than all the other three gospels combined. Jesus is always talking about the love shared between him and God. And Jesus is always talking about the disciples loving one another. And in John God is love. But curious there is no greatest command in John to the disciples to “love God!”    more

 

The Rev. Dr. J. Brent Bates, April 25, 2010

At the Chapel of the Good Shepherd of the General Theological Seminary in New York, the focal point of the worship space is a statue of Christ holding a lamb in the central niche behind the altar. Many of the representations of Christ the Good Shepherd show him with a lamb over his shoulders as our bulletin cover this morning depicts. But the statue of the Good Shepherd at the seminary has Jesus cradling the lamb in his arms. The lamb is looking up into the face of Jesus who has the look of care and devotion. When I was at the seminary a couple of years ago finishing my training for ordination, I often went into the chapel during the day between classes. It is a place where sitting quietly in prayer before the Good Shepherd one can encounter the compassionate face of Christ.    more

 

The Rev. Dr. Jane A. Tomaine, April 11, 2010

n 1952 a man named Brother Roger founded an ecumenical community of Taize in France. Today the community is made up of 90 brothers, Protestant and Catholic, as well as an associated group of nuns who serve the women who come to Taize. Some of you may remember that Brother Roger was killed during a worship service a number of years ago. A sad and tragic loss of a truly holy man.   more

 

The Rev. Dr. J. Brent Bates, Easter Day, April 4, 2010

“Early on the first day of the week, while it was still dark, Mary Magdalene came to the tomb and saw that the stone had been removed from the tomb.” Mary has come, the other gospels tell us, in order to anoint the body of Jesus, a common Jewish burial custom of the day, which the followers of Jesus hadn’t had opportunity for on Friday. Mary has been worried how she would move the stone from in front of the tomb, but instead, when she sees that it has already been moved, her heart skips a beat—but not in joy or hope. In fear: What has happened? Have the Romans come to abscond with the body of Jesus and perpetrate further disgrace?     more

 

The Rev. Dr. Jane A. Tomaine, Good Friday, April 2, 2010

               The Story of Naomi

I had followed him for nearly three years, leaving father and mother, brother and sister when he had come to our village in the Galilean hills.  I had cooked with Sarah and the other women and did what I could to help him.  Often we would talk with the women of the villages that we journeyed through.  With a child on their hip and another hiding warily behind them, these women would listen intently to us as we spoke of the kindness of the Master, his respect for women and the words of God that he shared.   more

 

The Rev. Dr. J. Brent Bates, March 21, 2010

As we’re beginning the fifth week of Lent, one more week before Palm Sunday, I’m wondering, are you feeling worn down by Lent? Tired? Overwhelmed yet? Anxious? Do you find yourself wringing your hands, thinking, enough of this already? Do you find yourself wishing you hadn’t made that decision to read yet another book as your Lenten discipline? “I really don’t have time for this!” Maybe the last few days of sunshine have lightened your mood. Or maybe they haven’t. But we’ve all felt this way at some point—ready for the end of the wilderness. But we’re still not at the end of our journey and we can only choose to stick with it.    more

 

The Rev. Dr. J. Brent Bates, January 31, 2010

The Bible is full of reluctant leaders. From the most ancient Jewish patriarch to Jesus himself, figures in scripture are often unenthusiastic about what needs to be done. It begins with Moses. Not even the voice of God speaking out of a burning bush (that doesn’t burn up) is enough to initially persuade Moses to confront the Pharaoh and lead the Israelites out from under his oppression. Moses responds “Who am I that I should go to Pharaoh...?” and follows up with a bevy of questions and excuses for God: “What if they do not believe me or listen to me?” “O God, I have never been eloquent, but speak rather slowly.” And after God gives pretty decent answers to all of this, Moses finally just says, “O my Lord, please send someone else.”    more

 

The Rev. Dr. J. Brent Bates, January 17, 2010

Jennifer and I have occasionally been making small five-gallon batches of homemade wine since the first years of our marriage. Up until this year we had always used a kit which makes everything quite easy. They provide just the right amount of concentrate juice at the right sugar and acid level and just the right amount yeast and other additives in small foil packets. It is really a no-fail enterprise, kind of like making a Duncan Hines cake out of a box. After doing this several years, we got a bit bolder and this year we excitedly decided to try starting with fresh grapes, which meant a more complicated process. Without going into all the embarrassing details, let’s just say that it would truly be an inhospitable act to serve this wine a party. We have unwittingly become the Vintner Anti-Christs: Jesus turned water into wine, but we have turned wine into water.   more

 

The Rev. Dr. J. Brent Bates, January 10, 2010

In all three scriptures this morning God has an audible voice. The Psalm says “The voice of the Lord is … powerful.” “The voice of the Lord is a voice of splendor.” “The voice of the Lord splits the flames of fire.” “The voice of the Lord makes the oak trees writhe….” While scripture also attests to the diversity of God who sometimes speaks in a “still small voice,” our God this morning has a great booming James Earl Jones sort of voice. According to the Psalm, this voice of God echoes over the waters: This may refer to God’s voice over the primal waters of creation, saying let there be light. Or it may be God’s voice following the flood in the time of Noah, saying never again. But on this, “The Feast of the Baptism of Our Lord” we hear God’s booming voice over the waters of Jesus’ baptism, saying “You are my Son, the Beloved; with you I am well pleased.”   more

 

The Rev. Dr. J. Brent Bates, Christmas Day, December 25, 2009

We’ve all heard that the culture doesn’t know the true meaning of Christmas. It’s all shopping and red bows and gifts—busy consumerism. And yet it is supposed to be about peace and joy at the birth of the Christ child. But you are here today. You have taken time away from the comfort of your fireplaces and Christmas brunches. So, you know something of the meaning of Christmas. You know the story. A baby, who is said to be the Savior of the world, is born to the Virgin Mary in a manger, because on their travels to Joseph’s hometown, there is no room available at the inn. And our images of this scene—perhaps a crèche in your own home—always make everything appear so serene. But the truth is, this time was filled with quite a bit of stress. Is Christmas really a time of joy of peace?  more

 

The Rev. Christopher Brdlik, Christmas Eve   December 24, 2009

Merry Christmas, everyone, and a warm welcome to Calvary Episcopal Church. We gather tonight to celebrate the annual festival of the birth of Jesus Christ. It is always a special honor to worship together on this most holy night, to sing the carols in harmony, to pray in unison for the continuing hope of peace and good will on Earth, and to hear once again the story of Christmas. And to share communion as well. I want to make sure you know you are invited to join in Holy Communion at the altar when that time comes in the service. This is God’s holy table, not our own, and we believe God wants us to offer fellowship at the table, just as God offered to everyone the special gift of his Son on that night in Bethlehem.   more

 

The Rev. Dr. Jane A. Tomaine, December 20, 2009

II’ve never had a child. This part of being a woman I have missed. I don’t know what it’s like to suddenly discover within you that new life is miraculously forming. To notice the changes within the body. To feel that first little kick from inside when the yet-to-be-born child calls out, “I’m here. I’m growing.” Mothers, what was that like for you when you first found out that you were to have a child? What did you feel? Who did you share this miracle with first? What was that like? When something important happens in our lives most of us want to share it, right?   more

 

The Rev. Dr. J. Brent Bates, December 13, 2009

Transition is what defines human life. We humans are always in the process of becoming. If we’re not in the middle of a transition, there’s a good chance we’ve just been through one, or are about to have one around the corner. We might be starting a new job or moving into a new home, going to a new school or looking forward to graduation, dealing with an illness or facing death—our own or the death of a loved one. Transitions may be full of joy and celebration or sadness and fear. Very often we’re ambivalent and our emotions are complex.  more

 

The Rev. Christopher Brdlik, Annual Report   December 6, 2009

This is my annual Rector’s Report to the Congregation. Let’s get right into it. What I have to tell you today concerns not so much the internal workings of the parish, which are largely healthy and good, but more the external influences — the trends or even threats — that increasingly affect our parish seemingly without our control. There are two of them. Let’s call them influences rather than threats — two externalities that I’d like to point out today.   more

 

The Rev. Dr. J. Brent Bates, November 29, 2009

What a strange way to begin the Christian Year.... What a strange way to look forward to Christmas…. If anyone came to church this morning expecting happy images of excitement looking forward to the birth of the baby Jesus, they may be a little disappointed by these texts of the First Sunday of Advent. Those who have already begun their Christmas shopping, fuelled by turkey and cranberry sauce, may be confused or disappointed that there is no Santa here. There are no shepherds gathering. There are no jingle bells and holiday parties. Instead, we are confronted with weird apocalyptic and eschatological images—or in more everyday words—images of the End Times and the Second Coming of Christ.   more

 

The Rev. Christopher Brdlik,   November 22, 2009

We all know what “not yet” means. Not yet is what we tell a child who wants to know if she can have a cookie while they’re still on the cooling rack right out of the oven, or the boy who wants to know if the family has arrived at the destination of their car trip. Not yet. Not yet is the season coming up in the Christian calendar, Advent, as we anticipate and wonder at the arrival of Christmas. Advent — Four weeks long. Christmas— Not yet. Not yet is a big theme every evening at our house as we approach the time when the dogs are fed. As far as I can tell, Labrador retrievers are always hungry. A late member of the parish, Jean Hoppin, once described Labs to me as “a stomach with four legs.” About an hour before feeding time my dog, Nallie, the older one, sits and stares at me with longing in her big brown eyes, as if to say:  Have you forgotten me? Can’t you see that I’m hungry? I point to my watch and tell her, Not yet.   more

 

The Rev. Dr. Jane A. Tomaine, November 8, 2009

In the women’s court of the Temple there were 13 large conical shaped metal containers, like inverted megaphones. The large sums of the rich would create a roar as they were poured into the containers. Heads must have turned to see who was giving all that money to the temple. Putting in a couple copper coins that were the smallest denomination in circulation would scarcely be heard. This gospel lesson is popular for stewardship season. “Look at the generosity of this poor widow,” the preacher exhorts. “She gave all she had and risked her own existence;” i.e., give until it hurts, give until it’s risky. Now this may be true, that we need to have faith and give generously, but is this the message that what Jesus wants us to hear? Could there be another message?   more

 

The Rev. Dr. J. Brent Bates, November 1, 2009

America has been called a nation of death deniers. There may be some truth to that. Death and dying were once much more present within our everyday lives. Over the past hundred years or more there have been major improvements in science, medicine, and technology, so that mortality rates (especially among infants and children) have greatly decreased. But with these improvements, we have also increasingly placed the care of the dead into the hands of professionals. Family members once kept the dying person in their own homes to the end, instead of hospitals or care facilities. When the person had died, the family themselves laid the bodies of their dead out in the parlors of their own homes, cleaned the bodies, and readied them for burial. Sometimes they did the actual digging and filling in of the graves. Today the dying and dead are cared for by hospice workers, doctors, clergy, and funeral directors; families have less of a role. Perhaps for this reason it has become more difficult for us to deal with death in our culture, because we have been forced to relinquish the care of the dead from the family circle.    more

 

The Rev. Christopher Brdlik,   October 11, 2009

I wish we could sit down and have a discussion on stewardship at this time of year. I wish we could talk about it, face to face, asking questions, sharing our experience of stewardship, supporting each other. Because stewardship is about our faith, responding to what we believe with action, expressing our relationship to and with God. Briefly put, stewardship is about our priorities. The place where I’d begin is with the night sky. Nothing impresses me more than an encounter with the cosmos on a cold, clear night away from the city. I can recall the first night I camped above timberline and looked out of the tent after a few hours sleep. The depth and clarity of the stars literally took my breath away. It was later on that trip that I sensed I was being called by God to ordained ministry. To this moment I believe nothing inspires my sense of God’s awesome creative power than reacquainting myself with the wilderness sky on a dark clear night.   more

 

The Rev. Dr. J. Brent Bates, October 4, 2009

Much of the Bible operates on the assumption that if you follow God and are faithful to God and live an upright life, you will be blessed. You will have lots of land, great flocks of sheep, lots of kids … lots of blessings all around. This is God’s promise to Abraham. It gets reiterated in Deuteronomy and then throughout the prophets. And there are hints of it in Paul’s writings. And I know you’ve heard this kind of Christianity, the health and wealth gospel perhaps being the most egregious version…. But then you have a book like Job—a “one-of-these-things-is-not- like-the-others” kind of book—that fractures feel-good faith, that shatters such a worldview. The book of Job maintains that you can be a really good person doing all the right things and you can still have a “terrible, horrible, no good, very bad day” as one of my daughter’s picture books puts it. Life is not always roses and Job tells it.    more

 

The Rev. Christopher Brdlik,   September 27, 2009

It is now fall, the first week of autumn. And while fall can be a colorful and beautiful season, it is also the season God created to remind us of the cycle of life and of our mortality. Back in the days before powered leaf-blowers and paid landscapers, many of us spent fall afternoons wielding a good old-fashioned rake. Bob Morris tells a story on himself from 20 or 25 years ago when he was raking leaves in his yard. He was feeling some of the gloominess of the season, and certainly felt he had better things to do with his time than rake leaves. This was in the early days of Interweave, when the project was not quite off the ground and there was plenty of uncertainty about its future. He says he was feeling “bereft,” sort of lonely without the community he had known in parish ministry while he was assistant rector of Calvary Church. And he would much rather have been out saving the world than raking leaves.    more

 

The Rev. Dr. J. Brent Bates, September 20, 2009

One Thanksgiving when I was around eight years old, my extended family came together for Thanksgiving. And I was really wanting to help out in the kitchen. You see, I was the kind of kid who, instead of watching cartoons on Saturday mornings, would watch Justin Wilson whip up a Cajun feast or the Frugal Gourmet on PBS. I loved to cook as a kid. And this Thanksgiving I wanted to try my hand at the giblet gravy. But the kitchen must have been a little too small and the occasion much too serious to have a little one like me at everyone’s feet, because I remember my unceremonious expulsion from the kitchen. I was disappointed so much that I vividly remember the event today. It wasn’t so much that I really wanted to cook, though, I think, than I felt excluded from the grown up activity, just like later I would be relegated to the notorious kids table, always a card table.     more

 

The Rev. Christopher Brdlik,   September 13, 2009

If you thought some of today’s readings sounded like a bit of old-fashioned advice, I’d say you’re right. This morning’s reading from the Epistle of James (James 3:1-12) was one of my grandmother’s favorite Bible passages. She was a pastor’s wife, a former missionary, who had made up her mind to control what she said and never to gossip. “The tongue is a rudder,” she would tell us, “a small thing that steers our lives.” And she lived by the teaching that controlling what one said was the guiding principle of a good life. My father once told me he never heard his mother speak ill of anyone except to call them a Democrat. (She had made up her mind about that, too.) But she was a kind, gentle person who, because of her commitment to the advice of St. James, gave very much the impression of being soft-spoken.    more

 

The Rev. Dr. J. Brent Bates, September 6, 2009

I first encountered a real live homeless person seventeen years ago this summer, when as a high school sophomore my church youth group went on a mission to New Orleans. The man was sitting outside a McDonalds scruffy and shabby with a pack full of his life belongings. My initial learned instinct was fear mixed with curiosity and then guilt. “Keep a distance; don’t stare too long,” I told myself. After all, what could I, a teenager, do to help this man? I had grown up sheltered in the suburbs and never seen a homeless person, and knew nothing of how to react. Give him a quarter? Ignore him. Look at him and smile?    more

 

The Rev. Christopher Brdlik,   August 23, 2009

When the Interstate Highway System was built, it left in place a perfectly good collection of roads, mostly two-lane, that once had been primary routes but now are off the beaten track. Many of them are designated U.S. highways. And they still cross and connect the nation. Robert Frost might have called them the roads less traveled. William Least Heat Moon gave them the name “Blue Highways,” because they appear in blue on roadmaps, and he wrote a fascinating book with that title on his travels across the country driving those blue highways. It’s roads such as these that I like to explore while on vacation. They have few trucks; they still traverse the towns and villages of America; they have “road character,” unlike the boring monotony of the interstates.     more

 

The Rev. Christopher Brdlik,   August 16, 2009

Dear President Obama, 

        First let me say how pleased I am that you and your family visited Yellowstone National Park yesterday. Ken Burns has called our national parks “America’s Best Idea.”  By taking your wife and your girls to the oldest national park — in fact, the world’s first national park — you are in the great American tradition of family vacations amid the natural beauty of our land. Too often these days families and children have become isolated from nature. A journalist named Richard Louv wrote a book whose title almost says it all: Last Child in the Woods: Saving Our Children from Nature-Deficit Disorder. You might say his point could be a program called “No Child Left Inside,” For he examines the negative consequences when kids don’t have the opportunity for play and experience in the out-of-doors.      more

 

Mary Davis, seminarian,   August 9, 2009

Good morning – First of all, I want to tell you how great it is to be back, here at Calvary, my family’s home church for almost twenty years now. I’ve been absent from the pews here, for the past two years, because I was serving as a seminarian intern, at St. George’s Episcopal Church in Maplewood. My two years in Maplewood were incredible, but I’m thrilled now, to return to the pews here for the upcoming year, as I finish up my final semester of seminary and as I hopefully ease into ordination next June.    more

 

The Rev. Christopher Brdlik,   August 2, 2009

One thing about going on vacation: you lose touch with the cycle of current events. Especially if you’re on a wandering camping trip of the West — as I was this summer — you can go days without seeing a newspaper or a television. Pretty soon the river of news has passed you downstream. And you return to news stories that surprise and confuse you: 44 leaders arrested in New Jersey?? Congress in a tizzy but still going on a break? Admittedly, even in a democracy that we believe functions on ideals of public service, politicians are generally regarded with our sarcasm, or sometimes our contempt. But these stories about leaders — well, it goes all the way back to King David and his conflict with the prophet Nathan, I suppose. But I wonder if I missed something important while in the news vacuum of vacation.    more

 

The Rev. Dr. J. Brent Bates, July 26, 2009

The story of David and Bathsheba is another episode in the soap opera that is the Old Testament with its drama, deception, passion, and plotting. This is one of those stories where David does just plain wrong and nothing goes right. He abuses his power, sleeps with another man’s wife, lies, and worse, conspires to murder, and then acts like nothing happened, that is until he’s caught. Sounds like the perfect plot for a soap opera to me. Of course, it’s easy to condemn the shenanigans of the actors in the Old Testament soap opera. But it’s always a good idea to try to read sympathetically—after all, these are people’s lives we’re reading about, and not just a script for a television show. So let’s consider David’s perspective, how it might have felt to be David in this story.    more

 

The Rev. Dr. J. Brent Bates, July 19, 2009

It is summertime. Kids are out of school. The weather is beautiful. Picnics and cook outs. It’s vacation time or maybe this year it’s a “stay-cation.” This is for many a time of increased rest and relaxation. Though perhaps for others there is no break. Summer school is in session. Work grinds on. There is no respite from the pressure of business as usual. Sometimes we buy into the deception that there is no time for rest. Being overworked is a problem in our society, a society that bases worth on production and profit. It is a plague of the well-educated professional, for lawyers, doctors, business people, and even more so for those a paycheck away from disaster. And especially when the weight of family life also comes to bear: the responsibility of caring for children or aging parents. We know what sleep deprivation is. We understand the benefits of caffeine.    more

 

The Rev. Dr. J. Brent Bates, July 12, 2009

Sometimes doing the right thing results in getting your head chopped off. In the case of John the Baptist, it was speaking out against Herod. This is the same Herod who questioned Jesus before his trial under Pontius Pilate. His father, Herod the Great, was the one who supposedly attempted to have Jesus killed as a toddler by murdering all the two-year-old boys in and around Bethlehem. Now John spoke out against Herod’s divorce and remarriage to his own sister-in-law. Herod’s new wife and step-daughter (also niece) respond with a scheme to pay John back for his embarrassment of the family. The result is John’s head on a platter.   more

 

The Rev. Dr. J. Brent Bates, July 5, 2009

It seems to me that we humans love to obsess about other humans, especially the powerful and famous, musicians, actors, politicians, world leaders, and sports figures. As I watch the news, and not just in the last week, I’ve noticed that coverage is increasingly dealing with the lives of celebrities. We love to obsess over every detail of these people’s lives, from their charity work to what they eat and wear, from who they are sleeping with or who they’ve broken it off with to what cars they drive and what they name their pets, from the births of their babies to their own tragic deaths. And while I think fixation with the rich and famous is an ancient phenomenon, now in the year 2009 we have the tools to obsess even more efficiently, not only TV and radio, but the internet, blogs, and twitter.    more

 

The Rev. Dr. J. Brent Bates, June 21, 2009

In our story from the Hebrew Bible this morning, Goliath and the Philistines have gathered for battle on one side of the Valley of Elah, while King Saul and the Israelites have assembled on the opposite side, a face-off between two peoples who had been quarreling for several hundred years. During a stand-off of forty days, Goliath, the mighty Philistine warrior, a giant of a man and formidable opponent of the Israelites, had come out daily to taunt the Israelites. Having geared up with body armor, javelin, and sword, he would shout at the Israelite army, intimidating them with threats of oppression, and tempting them to send out a suitable challenger.     more

 

The Rev. Christopher Brdlik,   June 14, 2009

The parable of the mustard seed (Mark 4:26-34) is one of the great stories for doing a children’s sermon. In fact, the first children’s sermon I ever preached was on this parable. It had a simple outline. Find a box of mustard seed on the spice shelf in the kitchen. Show the seeds to the kids — how small they are. Let each child pick one up, and roll it around in their palm. Encourage an adventurous kid or two to try eating a seed. And talk about how this little seed grows into a tall bush. The message is about growth, and how a little bit of something can grow a long way.    more

 

The Rev. Dr. J. Brent Bates, Trinity Sunday, June 7, 2009

This morning is both Trinity Sunday and our Rite 13 Ceremony, and I’ve got something to say about both of these. The Rite 13 ceremony is a relatively new liturgy that celebrates with our youth at Calvary who have turned 13 years old in their transition from childhood to womanhood and manhood. It is a ritual loosely based on the Jewish Bar/Bat Mitzvah that marks the passage from one life stage to another. It is different from confirmation, in that it marks the life passage rather than one’s assent to Christian belief.     more

 

The Rev. Dr. J. Brent Bates, Day of Pentecost, May 31, 2009

What is your image of a peak spiritual experience? Perhaps the calm of meditation, the ecstasy described by medieval mystics during prayer … those private, inward and almost indescribable moments. But that’s not Pentecost: Pentecost was crowded, public, noisy. More like the magic of a crowd at a Yankees game, where team devotion rivals religious faith, the shocked audience of Susan Boyle’s performance of “I Dreamed a Dream” from Les Mis on Britain’s Got Talent, or election night when the crowd celebrated the election of our first African American president. In the same way, God’s Spirit stirs, not simply in the quiet times, but also within communal worship gatherings, where we have glimpses of Pentecost.     more

 

The Rev. Christopher Brdlik,   May 24, 2009

Watching the ball game on TV the other night I saw a commercial for the latest new gadget, and it caught my eye: It’s an electric hammer for use in tight places, in spots where you can’t swing a regular hammer. I had three quick reactions to this product, all within the thirty seconds of the commercial. First, I wondered how it worked. I’m interested in matters mechanical, and the ad didn’t show enough or explain enough of how this thing operated. It looked like glue gun, or a child’s water pistol, not a hammer. My curiosity means that — while it isn’t worth a special trip to the store — the next time I’m at Sears, I’ll make a point of checking it out. Secondly, though I am curious, I was a bit skeptical about such a tool. After all, the hammer has been with us for thousands of years. It must be among the first of many human inventions. How could anything replace its elegance, the efficiency and simplicity of a steel head and a wooden handle?   more

 

The Rev. Christopher Brdlik,   May 17, 2009

A couple of times in my life I’ve had the chance to attend a professional golf tournament. One of these chances was just last week, when I took a break from some family business in Florida to go to the final round of The Players Championship. Now don’t get me wrong: I am not a golfer. Even though I had to pass a golf test to graduate from college, I do not know the intricacies of the game, I cannot read the fine points of actual play. But through the winter I often watch golf on TV from sunny locations like Arizona or California on a cold February afternoon in New Jersey.   more

 

The Rev. Dr. J. Brent Bates, May 10, 2009

I believe one of the greatest maladies of our modern life is loneliness. While our technologies and gadgets may have improved efficiency, and while our lives may have become more comfortable, is it possible that our resulting lifestyles may make us more and more lonely? One of my favorite magazines, The Utne Reader, which is a kind of Reader’s Digest of alternative press articles, and one that I highly recommend, recently included a series entitled “The Lonely American.” The articles show how Americans have become increasingly socially disconnected. More Americans are living alone than ever before. The 2000 U.S. census indicates that one in four households consist of only one person.    more

 

The Rev. Christopher Brdlik,   April 26, 2009

“In our family there was no clear line between religion and fly fishing.” So begins the famous first paragraph of Professor Norman Maclean’s story, “A River Runs Through It.” The paragraph continues, “We lived at the junction of great trout rivers in western Montana, and our father was a Presbyterian minister and a fly fisherman who tied his own flies and taught others. He told us about Christ’s disciples being fisherman, and we were left to assume, as my brother and I did, that all first-class fishermen on the Sea of Galilee were fly fisherman, and that John, the favorite, was a dry fly fisherman.”    more

 

The Rev. Dr. J. Brent Bates, April 19, 2009

The Second Sunday of Easter—today—according to medieval English tradition, is called “Low Sunday,” which probably refers to the contrast between all the pomp (all the flowers, music, and special liturgy) of Easter day and our return to the usual way of worshipping.  Or does it refer to the low attendance after everyone has had their fix of religion?  Whatever it means, we must remember that Easter is not one day, but an entire season—50 days, in fact.  For all intents and purposes, we are still celebrating Easter!     more

 

The Rev. Christopher Brdlik, EASTER DAY,   April 12, 2009

Today marks the 114th time that the Resurrection of our Lord Jesus Christ has been celebrated within these stone walls. In fact the first services in this church building were on Easter Day in 1896. Believe it or not, this church, the third building for Calvary, was constructed over a period of just ten months in 1895-96. Nowadays that’s only enough time to get two calls back from your architect. Many things have changed since then. Originally the Church had gas lamps for illumination — you can still see traces of the gas light system here and there. This pipe on the side of the pulpit, for example, once had a gas lamp attached. And those of you sitting on the aisle side of the pew, look down beneath your elbow to that nickel-silver plate on the armrest. The number there was the number of your pew back when pews were rented out, and the family’s name and number — along with the amount of their rent! — was posted publicly in the back of the church. We don’t do it that way anymore.   more

 

The Rev. Dr. J. Brent Bates, Maundy Thursday, April 9, 2009

Over the past few years, Jennifer and I have become interested in what some are calling the slow-food movement. This is in contrast, of course, to the bombardment and temptation of easily accessible fast-food establishments. The Slow Food movement began in the mid-1980s in protest to the opening of a McDonald’s in Rome. Its proponents talk about it as a way of living and eating that seeks to connect “the pleasure of food with a commitment to community and the environment.” So on top of the obvious health benefits of slow food, the idea is to foster a greater connection to each other and to the planet.  more

 

The Rev. Dr. J. Brent Bates, Palm Sunday, April 5, 2009

Life is full of contradictions and tensions, joys and sorrows. The last week of Jesus’ life, which we begin to commemorate this morning, started on a joyful and jubilant note, but ended with a sad and somber scene. You can see this tension in the readings for this morning’s liturgy. The reading from Mark just before the procession with palms from outside into the church told about Jesus’ triumphal entry into Jerusalem. The readings from Isaiah, the Psalms, and Philippians are graver, reflecting Christ’s suffering. And just wait for the passion reading after communion.   more

 

The Rev. Dr. J. Brent Bates, March 22, 2009

Did you know that there are 30,000 Burmese Pythons wreaking havoc right now in southern Florida? It sounds like something on the cover of a supermarket tabloid or the plot of a 1960s B-movie. When I learned that the Old Testament lesson for this Sunday was a “snake attack” story, I knew this had to be my opening illustration. Here are a few chilling details: These Burmese pythons, which can grow to be 250 pounds and 20 feet in length, have established a breeding population in the Everglades National Park. They are capable of swallowing deer and alligators whole. And as scary as that sounds, the real threat of the pythons is their taste for endangered species. Originating from India, they have no natural predators in Florida to keep their population down.   more

 

The Rev. Christopher Brdlik,   March 15, 2009

Some years ago, back in 1837, the Morris & Essex Railroad struggled to build its way out of Newark westward towards Morristown. After completing the track through the villages of Orange, it turned left to confront the Short Hills of the Watchung Mountains. Not only did the surveyors have to plan a way to traverse the hills, railroads were such a new conveyance at the time that no one was even sure a train could climb a mountain — all that had been built by then had been constructed on flat terrain. (Even to this day, on a rainy day in fall, wet leaves on the tracks can make a New Jersey Transit train slip and lose traction climbing the Short Hills.) But the idea did work, and in summer of that year the Morris & Essex crested the mountain. The builders, proud of their achievement and more than a little relieved at the success of their expensive experiment, erected a water tower at the top of the grade for the thirsty locomotives, along with a sign that read, “The Summit.”     more

 

The Rev. Dr. J. Brent Bates, March 8, 2009

When God seeks to create a relationship with Abram and Sarai, our spiritual ancestors, which in effect founds our Judeo-Christian heritage, God creates the covenant by an interesting gesture. God changes their names. Today too in our culture a change of names signifies something important, whether through marriage or divorce, or whatever reason.   more

 

The Rev. Dr. J. Brent Bates, Ash Wednesday, February 25, 2009

Picture in your mind a dark, damp cathedral in 16th century France. The smell of incense lingers from Mass earlier in the day. A pilgrim wanders into the church and lights a candle in prayer for a deceased child. A peasant woman kisses the feet of the Madonna and thumbs her prayer beads. A merchant man, sweating under the weight of a great and secret sin, drops a substantial amount of money into a box and waits as the priest writes out the man’s certificate of indulgence, which guarantees to reduce or perhaps even completely forgive his time in Purgatory, the spiritual realm where sins are purified through suffering…. While hundreds of miles away in Germany, a Roman Catholic monk, priest, and professor of theology named Martin Luther is nailing a list of Ninety-Five Theses for why he opposes indulgences to the door of the Wittenberg Castle. Thus the Protestant Reformation begins.   more

 

The Rev. Dr. Jane A. Tomaine, February 22, 2009

“This is my Son, the Beloved; listen to him.” (Mk 9:8.)  This season of Epiphany so ends as it began – with a confirmation and affirmation of who Jesus is. The experience must have imprinted on the minds of Peter, James and John that they weren’t following just anybody. They were following the Son of God, Emmanuel – God With Us. And this assurance of Jesus’ identity has been passed down to you and me. We follow one with infinite authority, wisdom and grace. We are to listen to him. We can trust in him and he can speak deeply to us.   more

 

The Rev. Christopher Brdlik,   February 15, 2009

I want to say two things this morning, and they are not really connected. First a word about Charles Darwin and Abraham Lincoln, born on the same day in 1809, whose 200th birthdays have been celebrated this week -- Darwin, originator of the theory of natural selection, noted for his influence on scientific thought, and Lincoln, known for his profound vision of the American union. Let me list some of by the similarities and the differences between these two men, perhaps the most notable figures of the early modern era, adding an occasional comment.    more

 

The Rev. Christopher Brdlik,   February 8, 2009

Here’s what we know from the gospel readings we’ve recently had in church. Jesus was born in Bethlehem. On the eighth day his parents presented him for circumcision, as was the custom of his people. When he was about 12, he lost himself in the Temple in Jerusalem, so busy was he talking and listening to the teachers. He was baptized in the Jordan River by his cousin John. Born, grown up, baptized — but was he ever married?    more

 

The Rev. Robert Corin Morris, January 25, 2009

Most Americans have two faiths, one secular and the other religious. The secular faith is what we sometimes call “Americanism:” Freedom, progress, democracy, the chance to prove your worth regardless of class or clan or creed. As Rick Warren put it, “…we are Americans, united not by race or religion or blood, but to our commitment to freedom and justice for all.” And a faith it surely is. The United States is the first creedal nation in history — it is built primarily on human faith in human possibility: "all are created equal." This fundamental American truth, to be effective, must be accepted on faith, for reason alone does not establish it...   more

 

The Rev. Christopher Brdlik,   January 18, 2009

We are in church today on what, from all accounts, may be an historic weekend in American history. Not only are we about to inaugurate our first African-American President. This is the holiday commemorating Martin Luther King, Jr., the great prophet of the 20th century. Dr. King would have been 80 years old on his birthday last Thursday. Had he lived, he would have seen some part of his famous dream materialize this week in the presidency of Barack Obama. Not only have those dates in the calendar converged like stars heralding some importance, these events come at a time of historic insecurity and concern. For economic trends and financial forces have also converged in frightening ways on this historic weekend.    more

 

The Rev. Dr. J. Brent Bates, January 11, 2009

This morning we observe the holy feast day of “The Baptism of Our Lord.” As I contemplate the meaning of Jesus’ baptism by John, I can’t help but think about last Sunday and the baptisms of Will and Caroline Babbitt. I’ve seen a lot of baptisms in my life: babies like Will and Caroline, adults choosing to claim the new life God promises us, full immersions in rivers and fountains and sprinklings in baptismal fonts. But last Sunday was the first baptism I performed as a priest; and that new perspective awoke a new joy and wonder in the ritual of baptism for me.   more

 

The Rev. Christopher Brdlik,   January 4, 2009

Habits are made up of virtues and vices. There isn’t a soul alive with an operating conscience who doesn’t know the difference. And there isn’t a soul alive who doesn’t know about itself which virtues need encouragement and which vices need change. At the start of this new year, 2009, pause for a moment, and consider, what to encourage and what to change in your life. In this new year, resolve to take time for things that make your life fuller and richer, for that is God’s desire for the people of God.   more

 

 

 

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